What do we want to be happy?

I just sat thinking today, I have my new car now but am I really really happy about it?  I was so damn happy and on cloud nine when I got my first bicycle. We are really becoming so fast in life that all the good things and all the happiness that's there do not last more than a minute. I see around me the same thing goes with relationships. There are times when I used to feel maybe I need someone of my age (read "a girlfriend") to share my thoughts, to share my feelings and to fulfill my emotional needs, but everywhere around me people who have such privileges are either fighting with each other, or are unsatisfied emotionally because they increase their expectations from their counterpart without realizing that the counterpart may have expectations too. So easy to point finger at others but in reality, they themselves are the other side of the coin. Why are we so blind? Why are we unable to accept our mistakes and shortcomings? Until unless we realize how wrong we are, we won't be able to forgive ourselves and move on life. Something in me tells me this short-lived happiness and our inability to take life slowly and enjoy its small happiness is the reason behind it all. I will talk about a female friend of mine and a great guy friend. He is a nice, lovable guy, which she realized and she being good herself they were bound to get together, I knew it the moment I introduced them. It was all cool till the time we all were meeting in our groups. Then they started going out, let's call the guy A and the girl B. Now A proposed to B to which she promptly said yes to. They became close but happened next was unusual, every positive quality of A was now unbearable for B. she used to love him for being manly now she thinks he can't understand her (which means he can't think like a girl and be sissy). She used to love his stunts now she feels he is too embarrassing at public places. Things that made her laugh now irritate her. She admired his intelligence now she has her own self assumed thought that he thinks she is not smart enough. I would say, girl, you always knew he was smart that's what attracted you to him, then why suddenly this inferiority, he is not feeling inferior coz he is not as good looking as you so neither should you be insecure about his qualities. The reason for me to blog this is if someone with the similar problem comes and reads this maybe he/she still has time to understand its no one's faults but theirs and they should be able to keep and protect their relationships. Well the story goes on more.. the guy had to leave to the US for some of his work, and that's when the real irritation for me began. This B tried to find comfort in other people. She used to show them that she is emotionally weak and vulnerable and in reality, she was using them to get what she wanted. Is it fair for her to go and sleep with somebody else just because she has a few misunderstandings with this guy without breaking up with him? During her short stints, she realized that A is the right guy for her. Now that A is back she is again happily going around with him. Now, what am I supposed to do both are my friends. Should I keep my eyes closed about how she cheated on his back in spite of knowing everything or should I tell the truth though my friend is not asking me? I have a feeling that since my friend A never doubts her he would never inquire about her but I think she can never be true to him for the rest of his life. I have made up my mind, made up my mind to stand with what?s right and stand against what?s wrong in next 3 days I am going to let A know what B has done. A small warning for all such A?s leaving their B?s for some tours or work?.be very very careful. Women have deteriorated more than men in their moral values. They are becoming insatiable. You treat them well they want to be treated like hot babes. You treat them like hot babes they feel you treat them like a whore and don't love them. Wake up guys don?t be trapped either be ready for short-lived happiness's or CRY. Your life YOU DECIDE.